Bitter Reality

Habits  What we repeatedly do, becomes our habits. Good habits can make us. In the same way, bad habits can break you. All people are same, only their good and bad habits make them different from each other. First we form habits then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they will eventually conquer you. And once bad habits mix with your blood, then it will stay with you forever. It is not easy to adopt good habits. It is easy to give up on good habits, while it is difficult to leave bad habits when become a part of you. You can only prevent bad habits, you can't break them.  Basically our character is  a composite of our habits. Because once we adopt habits then they are consistent, often unconscious patterns. On daily basis, constantly, we express our character from our habits. Habits are safer than rules; you don’t have to watch them. And you don’t have to keep them either. They keep you. You should be careful while adopting any thing, because later it will become ...

What is a Poison? Regret is poison. Revenge is poison. Racism is poison. ''Anything in excess is a poison. I t may be strength, wealth, hunger, greed, pride, laziness, desires, expectations, love or hate '' — Theodore Levitt “The mother of excess is not joy but joylessness.”  ―  Friedrich Nietzsche Excess is a way to destruct your character of life. So, be moderate in all thing. Moderation means '' Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.'' Too much darkness could kill, but too much light could blind.  Most of us try to do too much because we are secretly afraid we will not be able to do anything at all.  But excess is not always a poison. “If it's worth doing, it's worth overdoing.” ―  Ayn Rand “Too much of a good thing can be wonderful!” ―  Mae West Good and worth words are saying if what you are doing is good. Then even in excess it is good or wonderful.  You must have...

Human Psychology  Ever wondered why you feel the way you do, or do the things you do? The way your mind functions has a lot to do with the way you are, and the things you do. It's amazing how every 'unique' mind, at some level, functions similarly. Once scientist perform an experiment in which they selected few persons from their surrounding. They provided a shake with an information that it contain milk, dates and sugar. They check the level of hunger hormone, it reduced. After passing two days, again they call those persons, provided them a shake with an information that it contain milk, dates, sugar, banana and mango. Then they check the level of their hunger hormone, it reduced magically for all persons. In reality both shakes were same. The information about the contents of shake was wrong. This is how our brain works. We are the leaders of our brain. You can deceive your brain. Here are few facts about our psychic that are a clear indication of why th...

Situation + Reaction = Result Charles R. Swindoll was born on October 18th, 1934. He is an author and an educator. Once he said that '' Life is 10 % what happens to you and 90 % how you react to it.'' Your attitude towards life, towards different matters of life is very important. Our reactions towards a situation make us different from other. Otherwise ''90 % people are same, they vary on the basis of their reaction on certain situations.'' Our reaction and attitude give shape to our belief and feelings.  Have a look on following examples: Jim Carrey,  dropped out of school  to support his family when he was 15, and at one point he was homeless living in a caravan. This did not stop him from achieving his dream of becoming a comedian. Bethany Hamilton’s arm was bitten off by a shark at age 13. She was back on her surfboard one-month later. Two years later she won first place in the Explorer Women’s Division of the NSSA National Championships Benjamin Fr...

Time And Life Time is what we want most, but we use it worst. ''Life is a game of chess, and the other player is time.'' When you use your time wisely, actually you are changing the world every day. Never ever say that an experience was not worthy much. Every thing matters, you good and bad experiences/memories. Either you applied for a job for so many times but rejected, or you get a job in a nearby school. Once you decide to help someone, means you are changing the world. When you see an opportunity to help someone, don't think, just take it. You might not get this opportunity back. Never let any opportunity to pass you. But if you feel that it is difficult for you, just remember that the center of every difficulty is filled with opportunity.  Remember one thing, you don't get to choose how you are going to die, or when you want to die. You can only decide how you have to sped your life. And most important you have only one life.  Study as if you were going to...

Relationship and Respect Respect is the foundation of any relationship. The father of modern psychiatry, William James said, ''The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.'' Those who are not appreciated do not feel respected. It is disheartening. Hopefully we not only see that respect is an important aspect of life, but we see why it is important to show it consistently. Everyone is due respect by virtue of being a human being.   Everyone wants respect. Everyone should show respect. So hopefully everyone will receive the respect they are due, and they will grant the respect due others. What is Self-Respect? We teach other how to treat us. If you do not respect yourself first and foremost, how do you expect anyone else to?  Show yourself the respect you are looking for, and you will begin to show the people in your life how you expect to be treated. This comes down to things like the way you talk to and about yourself, how you view yourself, a...

Struggle And Success Without struggle, there is not any success. The most tragic about human nature is that we all dream about some magical garden full of roses over the horizon. The most beautiful thing about anyone life is that our most difficult obstacle and challenge may be most fulfilling  way to happiness and success. Some don't to increase your success rate Don't cheat yourself. Don't make your life miserable. Don't worry about useless stuff.   Don't miss the point to help others. Helping others, helps you. Don't allow others to drag you. Don't hide yourself. Discover yourself, who you are. Don't lose hope. Find your success blueprints. Now try to find your answer about struggling. According to you what is struggling? Something that we dread. Find it difficult to deal. Don't know how to handle it. Many past memories regarding failure. Don't know a better way. Where we end up after putting so much effort. Now, go back and identify your answ...

Ethics, Morality,  Spirituality  and Inner Peace Never ever think to do something which is unethical. Ethics are directly related to your inner peace. Ethics are the standards by which behaviors are evaluated for their morality – their rightness or wrongness. “Truth is higher than everything, but higher still the truthful living”.   It is through truthful living that a man can achieve contentment, compassion and understanding. Our society is full of those people who always remain on the look out for an opportunity to seek personal gain. They do not follow the path of truth and go astray. One day I told to my mother that someone give me a task. But my heart is not willing to do that work. I am not feeling good while doing this work. She replied me, every morning when i came to your room, i always found you in a very peaceful sleep. And I don't want a day, when i came to your room, i found that you are not sleeping. I got the answer from these words. Our peace, in...

Depression, Stress and Sadness These three terms ''Depression, Stress and sadness'' are totally different. If you are not alone in all these states (depression, stress and sadness), then that's fine. You can tackle with all kind of obstacles. But problem starts when you are alone in any such kind of situation. Sadness can change into stress and stress can take the form of depression. Alone in depression is very dangerous. All three factor can effect your physical, mental and emotional health. So, it's important to surround yourself with people. It's not easy to find trustworthy persons. Just surround yourself with people to distract yourself.  Your mind is your best friend and worst enemy. Every person who came on this earth, dealing with such kind of situations. parents are worried about their kids, young generation is facing different problems while older ones are also having difficult situation in their life.  There are different approaches to deal with s...

Father's Day.................   What is the definition of a father? Can we define father by using a few words?  There are two categories of each and every relationship. One having a great father, wonderful experience mixture of love and care. On the other side, nothing on the name of father.  Basically father is another name of protection. Children feel protected under the shadow of their father. Doesn't matter either he is giving something or not. But his presence matters a lot. Like if something is going then he will be there to save us from that darkness. This factor makes a man a father. Otherwise ''Any fool ca be a father, but it takes a real man to be a Dad.''  Yes Yes Yes, there is something special in a dad.  This day is for those who act as a backbone for their kids, even after leaving this world.