Habits

Habits 

What we repeatedly do, becomes our habits.
Good habits can make us. In the same way, bad habits can break you.
All people are same, only their good and bad habits make them different from each other.
First we form habits then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they will eventually conquer you. And once bad habits mix with your blood, then it will stay with you forever. It is not easy to adopt good habits. It is easy to give up on good habits, while it is difficult to leave bad habits when become a part of you. You can only prevent bad habits, you can't break them. 
Basically our character is  a composite of our habits. Because once we adopt habits then they are consistent, often unconscious patterns. On daily basis, constantly, we express our character from our habits.
Habits are safer than rules; you don’t have to watch them. And you don’t have to keep them either. They keep you. You should be careful while adopting any thing, because later it will become a part of your character. It will become your recognition. 
Notice one thing, when you wear a new dress or wear new shoes or even you wear new socks. Automatically you will start feeling different. No one knows that you are wearing new socks, except you. But still you are feeling good. 
So, when you adopt good habits, it will become a part of your nature. You will be surrounded by positivity. 
Think simple and positive. Positive thinking is a power for your soul. It helps you develop good habits.
It is true that optimists, or positive thinkers, are at an advantage in life compared to pessimists. This is because of the effect your mindset and attitude have on everything we come across. Our social relationships, our job and also our health are an integral part of our daily life and we can feel how negative and positive thoughts can have a domino effect on everything we do during the day.

"As long as you feel pain, you're still alive. As long as you make mistakes, you're still human. And as long as you keep trying, there' still hope." - Susan Gale

There is hope, change yourself........

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profundity. Kindness in giving creates love.

So, adopt kindness.....

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