Negative People: They have a problem for every solution

 Negative People: They have a problem for every solution

There is a saying, ''stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution.''

This is not true for all situations just like everything in life you will need to apply some common sense but what the quote points to is that you should always limit your time with people that continually drain your energy and add no value to your life.

Negative people are usually very committed to being negative and the more you them to be anything else the more they will push back. This doesn't mean you show no compassion towards others.

  • Live with compassion.
  • Live empathy.
  • Put yourself in others shoes.
  • Sure, so all that as a standard practice of being a decent human being.

But keep your life free from the drama and negativity that is not who you are.

If your attempts to lift someone out of negativity are unsuccessful.

You have to move on. They will get to be a better place when they are ready to get to a better place and no one will get there if they are not ready. Whether they are pushed or not.

There are not accidents. Everyone come into your life for a reason, a lesson or a blessing.

Will smith once said: ''Don't chase people, Be yourself, Do your own thing and hard work, The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you and stay.''

Don't let negative people to drain your energy. Energy doesn't discriminate. Keep your focus on what is good and you will see more good. More good will grow.

The same is true on the opposite side. They say if you lie down with dogs you will get up with fleas. If you lie down with negativity you will be consumed with negativity. You are who you spend your time with by choice. What you consume will consume you.

Your friends and peer group are a great reflection of you, because you choose them.

Choose wisely

Say thank you to all the toxic people in your life.

But why?

Because if they didn't appreciate you they taught you how you must not be treated. and they taught you how not to treat others.

If they let you go, they showed you how to move on, they showed you that you are more than a relationship. 

YOU at the deepest level are not YOU plus someone else.

YOU ARE YOU

Your soul is not owned or attached to another.

If they made you feel unworthy, if they took the life out of you for a moment, they showed you that no one can ever can take the life from you long term. 

  • They gave you strength and character.
  • They expanded your heart.

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  1. Sadia ArshadAugust 16, 2020 at 3:43 PM

    ❤️

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  2. UnknownAugust 16, 2020 at 7:22 PM

    Negative people always create a hurdle in a straight way so we should avoid people having negative thoughts...

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