Jealousy

Jealousy 

A natural emotion, no worries if you have it.
Life is not fair with everyone, but it is hard to accept this reality. It is tough when we feel that someone else has more than us and they don't deserve it, they don't struggle for it, even they don't want it.

No one has perfect life. Perfection is not possible. For time being you may think this person is perfect, but actually you are focusing on his or her good points. That person may have had a traumatic childhood. You simply don’t know. Then why you are wasting your energy on jealousy? They really may be more deserving of that promotion than you are. Just accept the reality. Be happy and try to become a reason for someone's happiness. Try to be happy or at least try to become neutral. 

But jealousy exist, what to do, when you are having such kind of feelings. 
Breathe and move forward. Consider that it wasn’t meant to be. This universe is having something for you.  Think about good things are soon coming your way. Don’t sit in one spot and let jealousy fester. The quicker you move on, the happier you’ll be. Just remove yourself from the situation until you feel better. If you are unable to move any where, create your own virtual world. Your virtual world is in your control. Become a hero, do what so ever you want to do. Get positive energy from your virtual world, apply that energy in real world. Don't stay too long in that created virtual world, come back, Your real fight is here in this world.

Think positive, then automatically you will become a magnet for positive energy, positive people and good things will happen to you. 

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