Comparison and competition

Comparison and competition 

We all have done comparison at some point. Comparison is a passive and negative response. Comparison leads us to search for our fault and deficiencies in our personal and professional lives. Most of the time we are unable to control these deficiencies. The worst thing about comparison is this you can't win. More often we compare our self with someone who we perceive as being, doing or having more.  
So, when you found yourself comparing with anyone then stop yourself and redirect your thoughts. 
It is our human nature to expand. We want to become more. But negative thinking and lack of ability to change our self, leaves us at the starting point.
Who you are today is the result of your decision that you have taken yesterday. 
We all came in different. We all have different and certain intentions. The only creation, with whom we have to work is our self.
Michelangelo said, '' Every block of stone has a statue inside it and it is the task of the sculptor to discover it.''
It doesn't matter what everyone is doing with their block of stone. Your business is to do well with your block of stone. Don't pressurize yourself, you will not be able to get a better version of yourself.
Let's stop comparing our lives with other, start with competing with our self. One thing more cheer on one another from the sidelines.

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