Bitter Reality

 Believe in Miracles I believe in miracles. I believe I'm destined for greatness. I believe I deserve it all. I believe in miracles. I believe today will be the greatest day of my life. Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying , then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now . There are only so many tomorrows. Isn't it amazing, we all know we are dying, we all know there is a chance, there won't be a tomorrow.  Yet none of us really live like we know that. Too few of us really appreciate each moment, like we know that we are here for a short time only. Too few of us live a life, we want to live, a life we are proud to live. Too few of us live with purpose and meaning. Thich Nhat Hanh said, ''People say walking on water is a miracle, but to me, walking peacefully on earth is the real miracle.'' Too many of us are walking around this earth, frantic, stress-fil...

 Negative People: They have a problem for every solution There is a saying, ''stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution.'' This is not true for all situations just like everything in life you will need to apply some common sense but what the quote points to is that you should always limit your time with people that continually drain your energy and add no value to your life. Negative people are usually very committed to being negative and the more you them to be anything else the more they will push back. This doesn't mean you show no compassion towards others. Live with compassion. Live empathy. Put yourself in others shoes. Sure, so all that as a standard practice of being a decent human being. But keep your life free from the drama and negativity that is not who you are. If your attempts to lift someone out of negativity are unsuccessful. You have to move on. They will get to be a better place when they are ready to get to a better pl...

Your Life is Your's  Life is not about proving any one wrong. Life is about proving yourself right. Life is not about competing against others. But life is about competing against yourself. To make sure you are better than your previous self. Better than you were yesterday. To make sure you are growing every day. Developing. Learning, Experiencing. Life is not about being perfect. It is about being happy. Not all the time, But every time you can, Life is not about being right. It's about being kind. When you have a choice to be right or to be kind. CHOOSE KINDNESS. CHOOSE LOVE. Life is not about noticing the negatives. It's about creating such huge positives. The negatives pale in comparison. LIFE IS NOT ABOUT YOU. It's about EVERYONE and EVERYTHING. We are all connected and all sharing the challenges and struggles. BE KIND, LIFT OTHERS UP. Give freely without expecting anything in return. And the world will return happiness and abundance beyond your wildest dreams. Lif...

 You are a Sheep or a Lion Courage Strength Leadership Bravery SHEEP follow the LEADER, they follow the HERD where they are going, they don't know where they are going, many time they are lead to slaughter house, but they keep FOLLOWING, they don't leave. they don't use their mind A LION leads. It's about having the COURAGE to stand and fight for your life, having the STRENGTH to go BRAVELY in your own direction even if others walk away, you TREAD your own path, only you know what's best for you, only you know what path to take, only you know your COURAGE. Your HEART. Everyone has a heart of lion inside of them. LET IT OUT, Let it scream out for you, like the lion. UNLEASH THE BEAST IN YOU. ATTITUDE is what you think, What you do and what you feel about yourself ATTITUDE is everything in your life, Guess Why? Whether you rise or fall, everything is based on the ATTITUDE that you showed at that moment. Your ATTITUDE determines your ALTITUDE. Everyone has experienc...

  Conscious or Subconscious Mind Are we running our lives with conscious mind, Or we are running our lives with subconscious programs. Well, science has revealed that only 5 % of the day are we operating our nervous system using conscious mind'd creative desires and wishes. 95 % of the day, our life is coming straight out of the programs in our subconscious. 95% of your life is coming from the program, so your life is a print out of the programs downloaded in your subconscious mind. And so significance is easy. Look at your life, the things you love and desire and wish for, that come in to your life, they come in because the subconscious has programs to acknowledge that. But here is the more important part. Where you struggle in your life, where you want to have a certain outcome but you work hard for it, you put a lot of effort into it, you are sweating over it to make something happen. If you are not a happy person, you can say every day, no matter how unhappy you are, repeatedly...

 Ubuntu Africans believe on a thing called Ubuntu. It means a person is a person through other persons. Your humanity is bound up, caught up, inextricably with others.  When you dehumanize someone, in reality you are dehumanizing yourself. The solitary human being is a contradiction in terms. Therefore you should seek to work for the common good because your humanity comes into its own in community, in belonging.  The Ubuntu concept is that we each exist as an extension of one another. We are all innately connected through our being here on Earth at the same time. When one person suffers, we all suffer. Wh en one person rejoices, we all rejoice. Sadly, the current  state of the world is anything but connected. Everywhere we turn we see disconnect There are wars being fought because we insist on division. On a global scale, we insist on choosing righteousness over the connection to others.  We insist on holding on to the pain of the past and using it to fuel the ...

Potential, Problem, Possibility & Purpose POTENTIAL is always bigger than the PROBLEM. Your POTENTIAL is infinite and is always bigger than whatever PROBLEM you are going through. You begin to have a vision about POSSIBILITY, you start to be pulled by it. And then once you really sincerely embrace it and your life begins to be, Okay, when i wake up this morning, I'm going to walk in the direction of my PURPOSE. I'm going to walk in the direction of my vision. Empower your POTENTIAL and PURPOSE, POSSIBILITIES will find you, and your PROBLEMS run away from you. Understanding that pain pushes until vision pulls. Ask what if questions. Begin to see, visualize, the kind of life you want to live. Begin to talk about it. Begin to write it down. Begin to dream about it. Talk about it doesn't mean you have to talk to everybody, because everyone is not trustworthy. Yes, it's true everyone is not trustworthy, talk to your selected friends-about it.

Follow your heart, your brain is stupid If you want to make changes in your life then take full responsibility of your life. Take responsibility and create your life the way you want it. Don't blame others or external circumstances for your shortcomings. Just own your life and start moving forward with your clear vision about what you really want. If you want more money build professional skills, if you want a relationship start meeting like minded people. Moreover, happiness is also about what you focus on. Focus on the good and you will be happy, focus on bad and you will be miserable. Take control of your mind, your focus and you will have a peaceful mind. Sometimes when we feel low, we forget how strong we are. It is important to honor your own journey and not focus on others to a peaceful living. Make peace with your past so it does not spoil your present. What others think about you is none of of your business. Time heals almost everything. No one is responsible fo...

Slavery or Liberty Don't fight for Slavery, Fight for Liberty. We think too much and feel too little. You may not aware of it, You may not be conscious of it, But your VALUES shape your DECISIONS, And your DECISIONS shape your LIFE, There is truly no greater power on earth than GRATITUDE, GRATITUDE shuts down all other negative emotions in the moment. The world would certainly be a better place if people showed more KINDNESS and COMPASSION, less JUDGMENT and more RESPECT. It is placing yourself in someone else's shoes before you judge them. What would your life be like, what would your world be like if you valued KINDNESS and COMPASSION more? Have you ever noticed how good it feels when you are KIND to someone for no reason? It feels good to be KIND, because it is RIGHT to be KIND. Try it..... Knowing you do the right thing, even when no one is watching and no one will know about your right deeds. This inner knowing brings PRIDE, HONE...